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This behavioral pattern is very negative and usually causes a lot of
problems for the one on the receiving end of the bully's target. This
distinctive pattern of deliberately trying to harm or humiliate others
is the main characteristics of a bully. These actions of intimidation
allow the bully to always be a position to get what they want. Get all
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Studies have shown that bullies are made and it is not a negative
behavioral pattern a person is born with, therefore it is possible to
control such impulses and this is best done at a very early age where
the initial signs can be detected by those living in close proximity to
the child.
Popular perception of the terrible two times in a child's life is the
starting point of asserting their will and if this is left uncorrected, it
will eventually cause the child to evolve into a bully.
Most bullies are very careful thinkers and are sensitive to those
around them as they are usually able to identify the most like and
suitable target before making their move.
They usually pick on individual who lack assertiveness and radiate a
clear aura of fear and uncertainty that immediately presents the ideal
picture of being a target.
A good percentage of bullies eventually evolve into fairly normal
grownups but yet they are still very much capable of being assertive
when the occasion calls for such a display.
However there are the odd few who tend to take things too far and
even as adults are unable to act and rationalize things in a civil
manner thus becoming a nuisance and a threat to society at large.
This is even more of a problem for those within close circles of the
bully who have not grown up.
More often than not children, who are the victim of bullying, will
almost always keep this fact to themselves for fear of repercussions if
they tell on the bully. This is not an ideal scenario as detection is hard
if there are no witnesses or victims who are willing to step up and
speak of the traumatizing experiences.
However parents should take the initiative to explain to their
children just how destructive this behavior can be and get them to
always tell if they happen to be the victim of a bullying incident.
From the victim's point of view however this is of course easier
said than done and such occurrences almost always go undetected
until something devastating happens to bring the incident to light.
Even then, it would be very rare for the victim to tell on the bully
for fear that they will either be ridiculed or that no one would
believe their side of the story.
Making a child understand and appreciate that bullying is not
something to be accepted would be a good place to start. Besides
this the parent would also have to find ways to reassure the child
and to encourage the child to speak up should he or she ever
encounter such experiences.
These lessons are usually learnt at home, where the child may feel
that even in this supposedly protected environment, his or her
opinions and needs are not being considered, thus creating the
mindset that it is ok to put up with the same treatment outside too.
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